My fear was mainly a pain for my family, but sometimes for me as well.
I had Decidophobia- fear of making decisions and I wanted nothing to do with any decision making.
I decided I needed to overcome this problem, after I got sick of everyone making decisions for me. I read and re-read Phobia Release and applied the techniques.
I was mildly surprised when I succeeded in overcoming this fear.
I do not know why I waited so long, but I am happier now and I am now able to order off the menu in a restaurant instead of eating what everyone else thought I should eat.